In a world going crazy, how do you plan ahead?
Change is something that we proudly claim we can all handle. We know all the clichéd quotes and mantras off by heart, yet still, we’re shocked when things don’t go to plan perfectly.
I want to help men grow and change in a turbulent world where they are increasingly being marginalised and sidelined, and as a result, are struggling to find purpose. We are being forced to the sidelines in a purgatorial zone to be purified or cleansed of all manner of sins we inherited which is confusing for many men who are used to working hard to provide for their families and society as a whole.
I can’t tell you the number of times I was “prepared” for life and then got sat back down on my butt by something that I had not taken into account. Of course, I had it all, and I certainly did not expect to lose my purpose and vision after turning 50. Never saw that coming. It wasn’t the changes of midlife that were unexpected. It was the rate of change that was the shock. Getting back on track wasn’t easy despite having a good understanding of what self-help I needed. This rate of change in the modern world is a major threat.
Hitting midlife wasn’t the end, but the beginning of the next cycle. I realised that what I had to do was what I did when I was eighteen – look ahead to what I wanted to do in life and plan a path without fear or excuses. I needed to build the hunger and drive for the next cycle in pursuit of a compelling future.
This is no different for any man who is sitting there worrying or feeling confused about their future. Nowadays, men are being marginalised in society for various reasons, and many young men can’t see a clear path forward to a life that society demands they must now follow. It’s no different for men in their thirties, forties, or upwards. You will experience both immense internal pressure and pressure from the outside chaos and turbulence that cloud your path forward.
My coaching approach is straightforward. Together, we focus on developing your inner strength and creating plans to navigate the ever-changing world. I am an action-oriented coach who offers guidance and partnership along your journey. It’s about men helping men in the face of some pretty daunting challenges ahead. It’s about toughening up and welcoming the real-world changes that are coming at us, thick and fast, as great opportunities to grow and thrive
Building Your Inner Strength
- Vision, Future-focused identity, purpose.
- Societal expectations (evolving roles) vs Personal desires
- Mindset, mental state, emotional state and physical strength
- Limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns
- Using your vision to create steps towards a compelling future
Navigating the Changing World
- Education and understanding
- Critical thinking and personal accountability
- Letting go of things that you cannot control.
- Digital minimalism
- Designing and plotting a compelling path – Financial, strategic, and lifestyle
- Preparing for global issues
- AI and the changes in purpose
It’s all about growing your skills, becoming multipurpose, and welcoming failure as a signpost along your journey. Not sure what type of coaching programme to sign up for? Why not book a tasting session?
